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Midnight In The Desert

Started by Falkie2013, December 11, 2015, 11:13:40 PM

bellNwhistle

Quote from: Metron2267 on May 24, 2018, 07:24:55 AM
That's a true spiritual calling regardless, thank you for your service...the the soul...

That sense of being observed...watched?

Or just feeling a presence?

Indeed yes.

Have you ever had the experience of a subject rallying and coming back to full awareness and engaging in animated and pleasing dialog immediately prior to their passing.

We were told my FIL did that in the wee hours of the morning before he passed when for days prior he had been in what appeared to be a heavy and labored sleep, which is to say non-communicative but still trying to hang on to life.

In the time he awakened and engaged the staff in conversation there was time for a priest to visit and administer last rites and then just as quickly (1/2 an hr.) he slid back into the final deep sleep and passed.

We were hours away and unable to get to him but the staff was so kind in assuring us he was charming, happy, and at peace with life.

A huge comfort to us, so what you folks do is greatly appreciated.

:)

(Morning, PBS and everyone!)

One woman I sat with  for a vigil was facing the wall. I never really could see her face, so it was nice to see a photo of her on her dresser. It was pretty much looking at me the entire time I was with her, and I felt that she was somehow in that photo, looking at me. Saying "See me. I'm not just the dying woman in the bed".

Another man was someone I had seen over the course of several months. My last visit with him, he was a lot more confused than I'd seen him before. At one point, he looked up and reached his hand out. I felt he was talking to someone I couldn't see. In fact, later that visit, he told me that he was just talking to himself. I think he might have been embarrassed.  He died not long after.

I typically only see the people I visit with every couple of weeks, so I can't say that I saw any of them "rally" per se. I do know it happens, though. I've heard and read several accounts similar to that of your FIL. (Kind of amazing, really). Apart from a couple of patients, the ones I sit vigil with are people I've only seen that once.

My dad, when he was dying of cancer, had gotten really bad. I know there was worry he wouldn't last much longer.  I traveled to visit with him and spent several days sitting with him in the hospital.  After he died, only a month or so after this, I was told that they hadn't seen him doing that well in a long time.  :'(


Quote from: Roswells, Art on May 24, 2018, 08:52:11 AM
I was standing in line when the woman in front of me struck up a converstation. She said she was just getting off work in hospice. I asked her if she ever sees spirits. Her response was "All. The. Time." How about you, Belln?

I can't say that I've seen one while with a patient. Not so far. I believe it can and does happen. I just haven't experienced it (yet).

HumanBeing

Quote from: chefist on May 24, 2018, 09:18:33 AM
Is that bad poetry or does it actually mean something?

Short answer, no and no  ;D

Just an e-sports (competitive video games) thing. An all female team beat a men's team and all the shenanigans that come along on reddit and such with that   ;D 

Quote from: HumanBeing on May 24, 2018, 09:30:02 AM
Short answer, no and no  ;D

Just an e-sports (competitive video games) thing. An all female team beat a men's team and all the shenanigans that come along on reddit and such with that   ;D

competitive candy crush? sheeeit.

Quote from: TigerLily on May 24, 2018, 09:08:03 AM
From another point of view, saying  Sandy Hook was a hoax is pretty cringy too. Especially for the parents of those really dead kids

You got that right.  I don't even want to acknowledge such bullshit.  It is beyond tasteless that some people use the tragedy to benefit themselves and, yes, I'm talking about Alex Jones.

chefist

Quote from: HumanBeing on May 24, 2018, 09:30:02 AM
Short answer, no and no  ;D

Just an e-sports (competitive video games) thing. An all female team beat a men's team and all the shenanigans that come along on reddit and such with that   ;D

Wow...never would have deciphered that from the post...almost like another language.


Asuka Langley

Quote from: Roswells, Art on May 24, 2018, 08:47:09 AM
To be fair, he started out as a proud and unrepentent troll. About the time he started asking (Redacted) on the Gabcast for her picture, then all the woman on Bellgab for theirs is when he started using his sensitive (and rich) man act.



Surprisingly, women weren't sending him pictures. Claiming he wanted to make a 'Women of Bellgab' calender didn't help get the pictures rolling in either. So, he decided to get their name and address by sending out hoodies. That way he could look them up himself.

I will save whitecrow the trouble



you are welcome

bellNwhistle

Quote from: 21st Century Man on May 24, 2018, 09:33:06 AM
You got that right.  I don't even want to acknowledge such bullshit.  It is beyond tasteless that some people use the tragedy to benefit themselves and, yes, I'm talking about Alex Jones.

100% agree.



HumanBeing

Quote from: chefist on May 24, 2018, 09:33:46 AM
Wow...never would have deciphered that from the post...almost like another language.

Kids these days and their twittering :D I've even noticed my spelling has gone to shit since the invention of automatic spell checking and auto-completion of words.

Context is important for sure!


Lilith

Quote from: Roswells, Art on May 24, 2018, 08:47:09 AM
To be fair, he started out as a proud and unrepentent troll. About the time he started asking (Redacted) on the Gabcast for her picture, then all the woman on Bellgab for theirs is when he started using his sensitive (and rich) man act.



Surprisingly, women weren't sending him pictures. Claiming he wanted to make a 'Women of Bellgab' calender didn't help get the pictures rolling in either. So, he decided to get their name and address by sending out hoodies. That way he could look them up himself.

That seems like a fair and balanced assessment to me.
Regardless, he still seems to be a very lonely man...

Quote from: Roswells, Art on May 24, 2018, 08:47:09 AM
To be fair, he started out as a proud and unrepentent troll. About the time he started asking (Redacted) on the Gabcast for her picture, then all the woman on Bellgab for theirs is when he started using his sensitive (and rich) man act.



Surprisingly, women weren't sending him pictures. Claiming he wanted to make a 'Women of Bellgab' calender didn't help get the pictures rolling in either. So, he decided to get their name and address by sending out hoodies. That way he could look them up himself.

Well, that is more than a little creepy.

HumanBeing

Want muh guns? Come and get 'em sucka!
:D


HumanBeing

Quote from: Bobs Your Uncle on May 24, 2018, 09:39:48 AM
Well, that is more than a little creepy.

Yeah that's a messed up anecdote.
She should perhaps check on her friend  :-[

Lilith

Quote from: Bobs Your Uncle on May 24, 2018, 09:39:48 AM
Well, that is more than a little creepy.

Like I said, Senda in a suit  ;D

Quote from: HumanBeing on May 24, 2018, 09:42:01 AM
Want muh guns? Come and get 'em sucka!
:D



I like muh guns too but that doesn't change the fact that Jones is an asshole and exploits tragedies for his own gain.
Just sayin'.  In that way, he's no different than the mainstream media.

Metron2267

Quote from: bellNwhistle on May 24, 2018, 09:29:50 AM
(Morning, PBS and everyone!)

One woman I sat with  for a vigil was facing the wall. I never really could see her face, so it was nice to see a photo of her on her dresser. It was pretty much looking at me the entire time I was with her, and I felt that she was somehow in that photo, looking at me. Saying "See me. I'm not just the dying woman in the bed".

Another man was someone I had seen over the course of several months. My last visit with him, he was a lot more confused than I'd seen him before. At one point, he looked up and reached his hand out. I felt he was talking to someone I couldn't see. In fact, later that visit, he told me that he was just talking to himself. I think he might have been embarrassed.  He died not long after.

Those are the kinds of things I'd think would happen, very interesting and very positive.

QuoteI typically only see the people I visit with every couple of weeks, so I can't say that I saw any of them "rally" per se. I do know it happens, though. I've heard and read several accounts similar to that of your FIL. (Kind of amazing, really). Apart from a couple of patients, the ones I sit vigil with are people I've only seen that once.

My dad, when he was dying of cancer, had gotten really bad. I know there was worry he wouldn't last much longer.  I traveled to visit with him and spent several days sitting with him in the hospital.  After he died, only a month or so after this, I was told that they hadn't seen him doing that well in a long time.  :'(


I can't say that I've seen one while with a patient. Not so far. I believe it can and does happen. I just haven't experienced it (yet).

You have an open but also reasoning nature, this must be a great comfort to your subjects.

Very nice to hear what a good experience you had with your late father.

Peace on you. :)

bellNwhistle

Quote from: Metron2267 on May 24, 2018, 09:50:16 AM
Those are the kinds of things I'd think would happen, very interesting and very positive.

You have an open but also reasoning nature, this must be a great comfort to your subjects.

Very nice to hear what a good experience you had with your late father.

Peace on you. :)

Thank you, Metron!  :)

🌸


Metron2267

 ;D ;D ;D ;D

To you both, this is a nice share for all.


DANIEL!

#Oh my dear Heather
#My blood is boiling with passion for you
#give me a sign my delicious flower
#this place is full of old sickly senior citizens
#we are young Heather
#let's escape this morgue

Robert

Quote from: Metron2267 on May 24, 2018, 09:25:42 AMMost electric rotisseries have a basket that can clamp down to hold burger meat or fish filets pretty well.

https://www.ronco.com/standard-multipurpose-basket-4000-5500-series.html
Better design I'm sure than the old Roto Broil from JK Metal.

chefist

Quote from: HumanBeing on May 24, 2018, 09:39:37 AM
Kids these days and their twittering :D I've even noticed my spelling has gone to shit since the invention of automatic spell checking and auto-completion of words.

Context is important for sure!



Ha...now I'm going to look up that bowling incident on Google.  ;D It's an ad...nice.  ;D



https://youtu.be/Sw-brk5zyx0


Corona Kitty

Quote from: Metron2267 on May 24, 2018, 08:11:29 AM
This summarizes my take thus far - the grade is incomplete because it's just an interview only program. And yes he has vacillated in his responses during interviews. I guess he's having to fill in the punctuation callers should have added.

Funny though how Heather gets grief for not having a dump button despite allegedly having Art's gear while Dave has the full resources of the DMDN and Keith's expertise yet still can't take calls...

I haven't listened, who would have known getting a phone line would take this long.

whoozit

Quote from: TigerLily on May 24, 2018, 08:56:20 AM
But I did get a very cool sweatshirt. Sent to a friend's P.O. Box - just in case
Hopefully not a good friend.  I can’t imagine giving him anyone’s address.

HumanBeing

Quote from: 21st Century Man on May 24, 2018, 09:48:26 AM
I like muh guns too but that doesn't change the fact that Jones is an asshole and exploits tragedies for his own gain.
Just sayin'.  In that way, he's no different than the mainstream media.

This place must have been like the wild west during the past election?  ;D

I rather enjoyed last nights back and forth the DR had with a few people. One against the others and he held his own.

HumanBeing

Quote from: chefist on May 24, 2018, 09:59:44 AM
Ha...now I'm going to look up that bowling incident on Google.  ;D It's an ad...nice.  ;D



https://youtu.be/Sw-brk5zyx0



and here I was thinking it was probably a real thing  ;D
It was quite the tumble they both had. Kudos to those ladies  8)

Roswells, Art

Quote from: whoozit on May 24, 2018, 10:23:04 AM
Hopefully not a good friend.  I can’t imagine giving him anyone’s address.

No, it's O.K. He PM'd me he has his employees send out the hoodies so he doesn't even see the names or addresses.

whoozit

Quote from: Richard Groyper on May 24, 2018, 09:14:34 AM
i don't believe it was a hoax. however, Dave's emotional response seemed out of place. okay, so, he knew a guy 'on the ground.' so what? i don't care what Alex Jones says. his words have zero effect on me or my life.
I didn’t have a problem with Dave calling people who called grieving families liars assholes.  I was a little taken aback about approved news but I did agree 24 hour news coverage isn’t a good thing.

HumanBeing

Quote from: Roswells, Art on May 24, 2018, 10:26:30 AM
No, it's O.K. He PM'd me he has his employees female slaves send out the hoodies so he doesn't even see the names or addresses.

What size was your hoodie?  :P


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